
There comes a time when you have to think about who you really are. You are, like me or everyone else, a persona of positive and negative qualities. You can’t pursue true happiness unless you accept both of your sides.
Accepting yourself means admitting that you know who you are. It’s the first step towards a positive change of your negative aspects. It’s simple: you can’t change something for the better if you’re not completely sure what it is.
Try this tip: lie down on your bed by yourself and ask yourself the question “Who am I really?“. Just let those thoughts emmerge but don’t get emotional. Put some reson into unreasonable thoughts like “I’m a boring speaker.” Say “I’m a boring speaker, because…” Now choose three things you so willingly want to change and write them down. During the next 30 days, do as much as you can to make change. I wish you the best of success.


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“you can’t change something for the better if you’re not completely sure what it is” – great! I couldn’t agree more.
We can’t work on our character defects until we know what they are. For me, that took help from someone to point them out to me. It’s called a moral inventory… looking back over my past resentments, fears, etc. and seeing my part in them and what patterns I’ve displayed in my life.
Great post, thanks!
@ Jared
Thanks for the comment, I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts.
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