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Every now and then, things just go wrong. It can be for days, weeks or months and yes, it’s quite a challenge to beat the resulting depression.

I’d like you to stop for a bit and think about this: Do you know a person that has no problems whatsoever? Because I simply can’t. I suppose that neither can you.

Problems are a natural part of your everyday life. Only when you realize that, will you be able to start concentrating on how to solve them, unless on the negative thoughts and emotions they provoke.

What I’m trying to share with you is that things go wrong sooner or later. So instead of thinking that they will never occur, be as much prepared for them as you can be.

Expect the worst and enjoy the best. A simple and sure way to happiness.

You can start by enjoying the comfort of your home. Or by relishing a humble cup of sweet relaxing tea. Start with anything you want. You don’t have to invest anything, nor make efforts – you simply have to feel grateful and happy with the moment.

Now that you’ve started, why not enjoy yourself, your family, your loved one, your good friends, your helpful contacts and every positive, energetic person you know? Yes, that too would be a small step towards happiness.

At work, savour your success and productivity. Experience the goodness of having a relaxing conversation with your colleagues (at least those who have a calming effect on you). That’s a start as well.

Just dive into the joy of the moment. Choosing at least three three of the upper things to start enjoying will guarantee a kick start to being a much more satisfied person. Or simply think about something else that you’ll like. After all, you have a simple choice in life: to focus on the positive or to whine about the negative, without making efforts to change it.

One of the happiest places on earth is Iceland. It may be cold and dark out there, but Icelanders are quite comtempt with life simply because their culture doesn’t stigmatize failure. That’s what writer and traveller Eric Weiner has concluded in his latest book and I fully agree with his thesis.

Here’s my question: how can we know what success and happiness are unless we fail from time to time? And should we really think of mistakes as something lethal? I don’t think so.

Cultivate a mindset that accepts failure as something human. Istead of being frustrated by it, simply learn from it. It gives you priceless know-how that no book, blog or motivation speaker is going to teach you.

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I’ve caught a nasty flu and as I’m writing this post, my body is doing everything it can to become healthy again. Looking on the bright side of it all, I have quite a lot of time to catch up with my blogs, to read some great books and to come up with more self improvement ideas.

Keep a positive attitude towards life, no matter how negative the situation may seem.

Despite my sickness, I try not to think about the state of my health at all. I know very well that I’m improving and that by Sunday I’ll be in perfect shape, so there’s no reason to concentrate on my problems.

Choose on what to focus your thoughts – on problems, on important issues or on solutions. But always try to maintain a positive attitude, as it will help you stay calm and make the right decisions.